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You are the one who looks for faces in the Crowd I’m the one Who builds the Crowd🏁💨

To be honest this blog was gonna be a peaceful and relaxing blog but thanks to The Sun and February here I’m the Same Arman but Not That same at all. These past 3 months January, February, March taught me one of the best lessons of my life but totally in a different way, might have touched the rock bottom mentally and emotionally (According to my definition of Rock bottom) I could have learned it in an easier way but Life it is, Nothing’s Easy as it seems to be. These Months made me realise The value of parents, the quality of relationships that I have with my friends you can say the quality of friends and the importance of Taking Rest nd having a break And One of the most important thing that at the end of the Day “ALL YOU NEED IS YOU” because I can guarantee that there will be times in your lives when you will not be able to discuss your problems with your parent or friends either because of your friends will make fun of you or you can say you don’t want to serve your parents with another problem from your life or just you want to solve it by yourself and wants to be a good (Superficial/Imaginary)hero in your own world or there could be any Other possible reason you can think of. Let Me share one of the biggest reason of all the teens out there, we think that our parents are not cool enough they will not understand our point of view, I can agree to this point up to some extent but there is still a chance that they are not cool (as per your definition of coolness😂 or should i say their is a good chance) let’s just accept the fact that we are the coolest generation alive lol.😂 and coming back to the point that they don’t understand you there could be a possibility I believe their could be a generational gap, there is actually because what they have been through in their times is just completely different from what we are experiencing right now in today’s time we get angry with the parents that they are not permitting us to do this/that, not letting us do whatever we want (in some particular cases) And might scold us but trust me they are the only people on this planet earth who cares for you from the bottom of their the heart (Your babu-Shonas will not be their But your parents will always have your back). Just try to relax at the point when they say no for something (I know it’s difficult) but try to understand why they are saying so or ask them why and think about it with a broader perspective there is a chance that you might have gotten on a wrong foot with them but trust me they are your  only well-wisher in this whole world. Just give them at least 10 minutes of your day and you will note the difference not exaggerating but just give it a shot. Many of you who are still reading might have thought that why is Arman talking about these things today? These Small things play a great role in a long term and that 10 mins can literally make their day❤️ it is what it is and you can’t always just have diamonds from the carbon nah sometimes its graphite too😬. So as I was talking about the rock bottom here what I mean let’s say you might have 100s of friends But 3-4 are your closest ones. 3-4 is also a big no. lets say One. So let’s just assume that you are happy and your life is going on its pace smoothly everything is good and you are living happily and out of the blue a tragedy happens in front of your eyes you don’t even have the time to think how to react what to do and you don’t have a single clue why it happened just completely out of the blue, just a rapid calamity I know it doesn’t make any sense using the word calamity here but it is what it is and that’s too just toooo unbearable/ heart breaking. Now will you blame the god? Or do you have the courage to say that ups and downs are the part of life

Or some of you may say “EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD” A big big F From my side  to this Quote. Their is No Doubt that I strongly believe in this quote I really do and I know you all might have thought that what a hypocrite person Arman is😬 hold on what kind of person everyone is these days?? You don’t tell this quote to a patient( a person who is suffering) while he/she is Suffering through something If you are saying this to Him/Her while he/she is suffering you are doing no good to him/her you are just creating a doubt in his/her mind about God’s/life’s timing (not gonna talk about timing of life lets leave it for some other day) when you are at your lowest that’s the time when you get to see the real colours of the people around you you get to know how real someone is. Their is a reason why I have mentioned (3-4 is a big no.) above because to be really honest you can’t share your entire personal life with 3 to 4 people it’s just toooo much (atleast for me don’t know about anyone else) then that life is not counted as a personal life its more like a public one because you never know what’s under someone’s skin an angel or a devil and with what intentions he/she is approaching you. You could have done million things right but just one thing goes off the track(could be any reason behind that one thing person could still be suffering etc.) and boom 💥 your soo called friendships turns into Your greatest Rivalry, Rivalry will be a too big of a word lets just say You both develop sudden hate for each other instead of understanding what your friends was going through (let’s just say that your friend knows that what you were going through) Here for this situation I would love to use the Quote “Everything happens for good” Just tell me why would you pet a snake when you can pet better version of yourself? It’s not always their fault the truth is not everyone is gifted with the power of understanding,people will understand you if they want to (like for eg. they love you if they want to love you not because they love you) know the difference between emotions and wants the world would be a better place✌️and the reality is the world don’t care, you are the one here for yourself not for the world just improve yourself the joint efforts will improve the world, like Emma Watson Rightfully Quoted “Remember you have a family to feed, not a community to impress”. Just don’t be Sad and just don’t wait for that one person he/she is never coming back just tell me why he/she left if they were meant to stay because they never cared, you were Dumb enough and Its time to realize that they he/she don’t deserves you i know it is easier to say because i’m have been blessed with some of the best people at best times till now (Specially in this last 2 months thanks dude) tbh idc if someone walks away from me i’m happy, many left and many will. Some showed their true colours and some stayed.(Ps:Don’t perceive these sentences as anyother means i’m just purely talking about friends nothing else) their are 7 billion people on this Earth, my bad 8 billion approximately (Its high time to Stop Uttar Pradesh😂) why would you ever think of giving a 2nd chance to a person who left you at your worst (lets leave 2nd chance for another day too) and a sweet little reminder for all of the reader To Just have the Integrity to Keep His/Her secrets Secret whether you guys are Talking to them or not ngl back bitching looks fun until/unless one of your so-called secret gets the light.

KNOW YOUR WORTH, HAVE OPTIONS NEVER BE ONE🏁☠️ -Aj

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